This last week has been so overloaded. On the whole, I kept
my mouth shut and carried on. I didn’t even write a post entitled One Year Anniversary, Government Shuts Down.
Fun, but pointless. Since opening my mouth seems my best bit of ammunition, I
carry on with phone calls to legislators that may seem pointless, but are part
of the noise capturing attention. As much as my heart wants to march to
protest, I know I physically cannot. So, I sponsor one for me and one more to
fill out the crowd. The least I can do.
At the endocrinologists last week, I was in a civics metaphor.
Walking back to the elevator, finger trailing the long wall because I won’t
carry my cane, I became aware of a disturbance by the elevator. A young mother
pushing a double long stroller of babies past a man standing in the middle of
the hall. I wondered why she didn’t just stop and shift the stroller to make
the turn. End of thought.
When I got to the spot, vacated by the irritated young
mother, the man said to me, “Can you tell me where to find room 302.” It was
the room I’d just left, so I launched into a “down this hall” explanation, before
I looked up and full in his face. In my
defense, he was a massive fellow and it was a long way up. And, since I notice
everything when I bother to, he was dressed in a fabulous leather overcoat, with
appropriate vest and suit coat visible underneath, a lovely fedora, black
gloves, a cane. And, the one eye I could see was white, like Laura’s favorite
zombie movies.
“It’s down this hall; can I walk with you?” I said, and
turned back. “That would be so nice; my helper couldn’t come today.” I guess he
could see a bit, like a macular degenerative person I know. I smiled to myself;
cane and gloves in his left hand, he dragged his right index finger down his
side of the hall. Then he said, “I hear you dragging a finger on the wall. A
matched pair?” I laughed and said no, my
problem was balance.
I opened the office door, and there was the new sign in
system I hate. Type your name into a key pad. I went to a window, shoved open
the glass (just put a full palm on it and slide!) and said a man with a problem
seeing was in the waiting room. All three of them were out like white on rice;
apparently he is an old favorite. I left.
The young mother has crossed my mind this week. I’d hate to
be in a car she is driving, unaware of her surroundings. Or, had she seen his
disability and been repulsed? Or, had she seen his blackness, and been
repelled? Or, was she just rude? I have too much time on my hands.
I retrieved Laura from her Polar Bear weekend a bit
ago. She is damp to the bone. They made
shelters of tarps and slept out two nights. Tarps, ropes and rocks, I heard.
They hiked. They sledded. They zip lined. They drank a lot of cocoa. They ate pizza one
night, from their summer earnings. The next night they had a Dutch oven
contest. “The boys, the girls, the grown-ups.” Four boys, three girls, four
grown-ups. One camp fire, three Dutch ovens, and their choice among ingredients
of hamburger, many veggies to slice or dice, beans, spices, pastas.
She knew about the contest ahead of time, and told me she
would tell her team she would be in charge. She made a chilie. The boys made a
goulash. “They ruined it. I told them, ‘Your noodles are done, get them out of
the water!’, but they didn’t listen to me.” The grown-ups made a chilie, too. “Who
won the contest?”
“My team. But it wasn’t unanimous. One grown-up didn’t vote,
because he didn’t want it to be unanimous.”
“How rude!” said I. “I thought so, too,” from the Polar
Bear.
One of Laura's photos from a Polar Bear hike.
One of Laura's photos from a Polar Bear hike.
