Saturday, January 11, 2025

Such a week or so

Too much new going on. I was a couple of weeks without the new computer. It was set up, and transferring the data, but silly little glitches held up progress. First, Beth assumed I had a monitor, but the old computer actually was self contained, and the monitor left with the CPU (if that's what it's still called). 

New monitor arrived, synching set up, but it took some time for the new kid on the block to absorb all the information. Beth came back in a week or so for the wrap and all seemed well. But soon I realized my new monitor had no speakers. Back to the well. I expedited the speaker; back in business.

Then...ever since that high blood pressure attack several months ago, I've been plagued by my startle response. An unexpected noise and I jump. I threw my Chrome button off the screen when my phone rang yesterday. I can still use the start function to access Chrome, but I simply could not drag and drop that shortcut to the home screen.

I cleverly decided just to download Chrome again. Bad choice All my old Chrome settings are lost. That's enough of that. I am leaving well enough alone. I can still get around until my computer guru's reappear.

In the meantime, I saw on this morning's news that Anna Maria of Aurora has been named by Newsweek as a (the?) number one in their "America's Best Nursing Homes of 2025". I certainly have always been impressed by the services. Decent food, good staff, good housekeeping. My only complaint is that people keep dying.

We have one resident who, to me, epitomizes the sort of care at Anna Maria. Bill is a Vietnam veteran, who has PTSD. Bill never stops talking, except to listen a bit and then rejoin with his knowledge. He is a very well read man who knows and pretty well understands 20th century history. He can hold forth for hours, and does.

Interestingly, he has a core of friends and acquaintances who keep him company much of the day. If they don't know WWII, he fills them in. WWI, the same. Don't know what each president accomplished, well, Bill does, and he'll get you up to snuff. A happy, harmless veteran who does need reminded to change his clothes.

That same resident who cannot be responsible for her walker also believes Bill should be in a veteran's home, "where he can get the help he needs." She's pretty adamant about that. She's bothered that he talks so much.

Veteran's homes are not run by the VA; they are administered by the individual states, under their nursing home regulations. There are two in Ohio. Ohio does not have a sterling nursing home reputation. My knowledge is limited to two veterans I have known before and after they lived in a veteran's home in Ohio. From my experience with them I think Bill would be chewed up and spit out in such a facility.

I disabused Jean of her belief that the VA runs veteran's homes, at least in Ohio. I think Bill's family did well to place him here in such mixed and accepting company, and asked her to just stop listening to him at the next table if he interrupted her thoughts that much. Sadly, he's not the only resident on her last nerve.

All that's left is the weather. We had ten inches of snow, and though it's sagging, it's still here. Daily flurries and temps from twenty down have seen to that. It will not change in the next couple of weeks. So, let's see if I can dig through Windows 11 and find a picture.


Here's one. I'm currently weaving the purple. It's lovely!

10 comments:

  1. Computers can be nerve-wracking, it's true. But you seem to be managing well, despite it all!

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  2. Glad you finally got your new computer sorted out. Whenever some computer upgrade is needed, it always seems to involve multiple technical glitches and headaches.
    Men who never stop talking are tiresome. Have they never heard the word "enough"?

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  3. I don't think I'd have the patience to live in a group setting. Good for you that you can and do.

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  4. Tolerance is what she needs. Maybe the nursing home could begin a series of classes. Tolerance could be one subject. You could each come up with other ideas as timme goes on.

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  5. Aren't new computers a frustrating use of life? They are useful but the set up time is hours, days, or weeks of your life that you never get back. That purple is regal!

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  6. Joanne, I am typing away on a 14 year old laptop using Windows 7 because I dread a new computer and new OS setup. Anyway, I very much enjoyed reading about your vet. I hope you do some more khaki towels this year. 🙂

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  7. Happy weaving. Sigh on the new PC issues. We currently have no sound and and an initial delve has given us no answers.

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  8. Even if the veteran was in a "veterans home" it won't be able to help him. Get the annoyed resident some ear plugs. He is lucky to have been positioned at a better place. The public spit on the Vietnam vets when they came home. The annoyed resident should be a tad grateful. When I worked as an RN at the VA hospital in KC, the veterans of any era would buddy up and talk for hours. Some didn't have a choice when the rooms still held two patients each. Most are a cool group of guys who are grateful for the care.
    Yep, I'm afraid to adjust anything on my PC, and usually wait til my son can help. Make sure the sidewalks are safe there. Linda in Kansas

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  9. We are contemplating a new computer. Ugh! Hate the thought.

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  10. Joanne, sorry about the computer glitches. But sounds like you made a good choice when you chose that place to live. As for your veteran friend, he's probably best where he is... and your 'annoyed' friend (Jean?) IMO needs to learn tolerance, acceptance, and kindness.

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