Too much new going on. I was a couple of weeks without the new computer. It was set up, and transferring the data, but silly little glitches held up progress. First, Beth assumed I had a monitor, but the old computer actually was self contained, and the monitor left with the CPU (if that's what it's still called).
New monitor arrived, synching set up, but it took some time for the new kid on the block to absorb all the information. Beth came back in a week or so for the wrap and all seemed well. But soon I realized my new monitor had no speakers. Back to the well. I expedited the speaker; back in business.
Then...ever since that high blood pressure attack several months ago, I've been plagued by my startle response. An unexpected noise and I jump. I threw my Chrome button off the screen when my phone rang yesterday. I can still use the start function to access Chrome, but I simply could not drag and drop that shortcut to the home screen.
I cleverly decided just to download Chrome again. Bad choice All my old Chrome settings are lost. That's enough of that. I am leaving well enough alone. I can still get around until my computer guru's reappear.
In the meantime, I saw on this morning's news that Anna Maria of Aurora has been named by Newsweek as a (the?) number one in their "America's Best Nursing Homes of 2025". I certainly have always been impressed by the services. Decent food, good staff, good housekeeping. My only complaint is that people keep dying.
We have one resident who, to me, epitomizes the sort of care at Anna Maria. Bill is a Vietnam veteran, who has PTSD. Bill never stops talking, except to listen a bit and then rejoin with his knowledge. He is a very well read man who knows and pretty well understands 20th century history. He can hold forth for hours, and does.
Interestingly, he has a core of friends and acquaintances who keep him company much of the day. If they don't know WWII, he fills them in. WWI, the same. Don't know what each president accomplished, well, Bill does, and he'll get you up to snuff. A happy, harmless veteran who does need reminded to change his clothes.
That same resident who cannot be responsible for her walker also believes Bill should be in a veteran's home, "where he can get the help he needs." She's pretty adamant about that. She's bothered that he talks so much.
Veteran's homes are not run by the VA; they are administered by the individual states, under their nursing home regulations. There are two in Ohio. Ohio does not have a sterling nursing home reputation. My knowledge is limited to two veterans I have known before and after they lived in a veteran's home in Ohio. From my experience with them I think Bill would be chewed up and spit out in such a facility.
I disabused Jean of her belief that the VA runs veteran's homes, at least in Ohio. I think Bill's family did well to place him here in such mixed and accepting company, and asked her to just stop listening to him at the next table if he interrupted her thoughts that much. Sadly, he's not the only resident on her last nerve.
All that's left is the weather. We had ten inches of snow, and though it's sagging, it's still here. Daily flurries and temps from twenty down have seen to that. It will not change in the next couple of weeks. So, let's see if I can dig through Windows 11 and find a picture.
Here's one. I'm currently weaving the purple. It's lovely!
Computers can be nerve-wracking, it's true. But you seem to be managing well, despite it all!
ReplyDeleteGlad you finally got your new computer sorted out. Whenever some computer upgrade is needed, it always seems to involve multiple technical glitches and headaches.
ReplyDeleteMen who never stop talking are tiresome. Have they never heard the word "enough"?
I don't think I'd have the patience to live in a group setting. Good for you that you can and do.
ReplyDeleteTolerance is what she needs. Maybe the nursing home could begin a series of classes. Tolerance could be one subject. You could each come up with other ideas as timme goes on.
ReplyDeleteAren't new computers a frustrating use of life? They are useful but the set up time is hours, days, or weeks of your life that you never get back. That purple is regal!
ReplyDeleteJoanne, I am typing away on a 14 year old laptop using Windows 7 because I dread a new computer and new OS setup. Anyway, I very much enjoyed reading about your vet. I hope you do some more khaki towels this year. 🙂
ReplyDeleteHappy weaving. Sigh on the new PC issues. We currently have no sound and and an initial delve has given us no answers.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could send you "no-one" she'd have your sound back in no time.
DeleteEven if the veteran was in a "veterans home" it won't be able to help him. Get the annoyed resident some ear plugs. He is lucky to have been positioned at a better place. The public spit on the Vietnam vets when they came home. The annoyed resident should be a tad grateful. When I worked as an RN at the VA hospital in KC, the veterans of any era would buddy up and talk for hours. Some didn't have a choice when the rooms still held two patients each. Most are a cool group of guys who are grateful for the care.
ReplyDeleteYep, I'm afraid to adjust anything on my PC, and usually wait til my son can help. Make sure the sidewalks are safe there. Linda in Kansas
We are contemplating a new computer. Ugh! Hate the thought.
ReplyDeleteJoanne, sorry about the computer glitches. But sounds like you made a good choice when you chose that place to live. As for your veteran friend, he's probably best where he is... and your 'annoyed' friend (Jean?) IMO needs to learn tolerance, acceptance, and kindness.
ReplyDeleteThat purple is luscious.
ReplyDeleteNice to know you picked a good place to be. Seems like residences like yours should have someone on call for tech questions and help. I mean- wouldn't that make sense? Of course our kids and grandkids can help but they can't just drop what they're doing every time we need help with a gadget.
The resident who can't control her walker seems like a fairly unpleasant person. I wonder where she could go to get help with HER problem?
LOVE the purple, Joanne! I have earbuds and earplugs and headphones, to turn off any noise I find disagreeable, no matter where I am. I find that there are 2 camps - those who insist others change so that they may be more comfortable, and those who take care of themselves and never expect it from others. I see you are in the second camp! And for the love of God, computer stuff! When they work, I am completely smitten, and when they don't, I feel like an upside down bug, legs flailing waiting for someone to come and tip me back over.
ReplyDeleteI find any new computer comes with a learning curve. It sounds like you are nearly sorted now.
ReplyDeleteGood to know you chose a great place to live. Plus, my impression is, you navigate anything that comes up really well. You've got good friends and family too.
There are always one or two unpleasant apples in any group! Someone should gift the woman that thinks Bill talks to much a set of earplugs or a noise cancelling headset.
Nonstop talkers annoy me, but you know what annoys me even more? People who know what is best for every damn body else and must hold forth. My dad used to say 'if I wanted your opinion, I would beat it out of you.'
ReplyDeleteI suppose that would not work.
Hari OM
ReplyDeleteHmmm... Chrome is run from your Google account so ought to just 'plug and play' even keeping your bookmarks and other preferences. I hope one or other of the geeks come to you soon! Also glad to read that you are in a top notch place - as these places go. Community living is never without its problem peeps. YAM xx
I also love the purple and kudos to you for finding a good home to stay in. I hope the grandkids or someone can help you regarding Chrome settings and you seem very understanding about the other residents.
ReplyDeleteWith most things like Chrome etec, you can right click and select "create shortcut" from the drop down menu that appears. Bill sounds like an interesting person for those who are prepared to listen and discuss. Jean needs a pair of earplugs.
ReplyDeleteI do not speak the Chrome, only the Firefox. So, I have nowt to say on that subject. Jean should perhaps adopt a more Christian attitude towards someone whose head was harmed in the service of her country. Sorry your weather is so gruesome.
ReplyDeleteSenior residences have some problems with how people get along. I visit enough friends to figure that out.
ReplyDeleteI think I would be interested in Bill. My dad was a history teacher and LOVED talking about wars, generals and presidents. I hate getting a new computer or phone because I'm always lost and manage to mess stuff up. Hope you can soon figure out the beast!
ReplyDeleteYou clearly have adapted well to the new computer despite the hurdles, which you shall continue to overcome. Have a good week.
ReplyDeleteI'll have to check with my kids to find out if I can keep using my old, old, hand-me-down computer!?! I'm glad you are in a nice facility and that most people are pretty nice. There's always a couple of crabs and it is too bad you need to sit near her.
ReplyDeleteWe have some veterans here in my building too. My exposure is limited as we don't have community meals unless put on by the tenants. I do tend to avoid crashing bores (and we have a few) and I am grateful it's independent living. It's the lack of self-awareness in those that is the most irritating. they tend to pin you down and broadcast at you non-stop and have very little interest in the lives of others.
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Jean sounds like one of those people whose whole life is about finding things to complain about, kind of like my mother was. And good for you for calling her out about Bill. Maybe she should be the one to find a new place to live. I was fortunate that when I got my new mac mini it came with all the help I needed to get it sorted, migrated, and up and running even if it was long distance and via hours on facetime. And I may have to buy another one of your towels.
ReplyDeleteI am well educated, and, I think, reasonably intelligent and able to cope well with the vagaries of life, but I freely confess that computers intimidate me - and I don’t think that’s about to change any time soon, if ever.
ReplyDeleteThe purple is beautiful. I wish Jean would shut up. Bill's knowledge of history could be interesting, up to a point, and when it becomes tiresome, then it's time to stop listening. No biggie. My son gave me a laptop for Christmas 2020 (a couple of weeks before he tried to kill me) and I didn't have to do anything to set it up. I was a little afraid of it because I thought it would be difficult. I avoided it for a bit. Then he charged it and when I opened it, it spoke to me to tell me what to do. I was shocked. Everything I needed showed up as if by magic. I'm still using it and it's wonderful.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie
Dear Joanne, new computers are a nightmare for me.
ReplyDeleteAs to the veteran: it sounds that he is very lucky to stay where he is. Can't the complaining woman not change her seat?
Microsoft keep trying to update my Windows 10 to Windows 11. I don't want it. In my state I would find it too much trouble to get used to it. It is getting harder and harder to find the Stay With Windows 10 button.
ReplyDeleteSome people just need to get over themselves and perhaps wonder why the vet is so desperately in need of validation.
ReplyDeleteI'll probably look at getting a new computer in the spring.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad your computer problem is fixed. Now about that startle reflex. I hope you'll be OK and it doesn't cause an accident. Poor Bill. I think the VA would have been a better location for him. I didn't even know there were VA care homes in Hawaii.
ReplyDeleteGood to hear that most of your computer problems are fixed. Hopefully the gurus arrive sooner than later to get everything where you need it. Take care, Joanne.
ReplyDeleteI hear the voice of Groucho Marx in your words about the facility: My only complain is that the people keep dying.
ReplyDeleteHa!
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