Friday, November 8, 2024

Carry on

 I still wonder how all of you even started a new post, moving your thoughts through your fingers and onto the keyboard. Now it's tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow, time to begin again.

We've been in tough spots before, even in our memories and extended memories. There are family stories of poverty, death in the flu epidemic, orphanages, death in wars, "coffee-sop" for dinner (bread in coffee), child labor, and on and on. 

I saw Beth today, first time in weeks since a deer ran into her car. She told me of a book she's reading, The Fourth Turning is Here, Neil Howe. I will get it and read it, as soon as I can. From her description it seems we may be at the cusp of the fourth turning.

Back to my take on our turn of events, we have been in ugly spots in our own life times, and know how we handled them. For my part, that has been Vietnam, Afghanistan, Iraq; being a single mother and how that formed my life. How back in the sixties I wrangled credit and a mortgage from male bankers, raised two daughters on women's wages. Together with my sister started a business.

Well, here we go again. Hold on to hope. Stay engaged, always push back, don't make it easy. Today I started on a simple project, a thank you note to every Democratic Congress member for what they have accomplished. We must make real the world we want to live in.

I'm sad to report real life is rather slow, here at home. My blood pressure is closing in on normal, and then in a fit of sneezing I seized up my back. I even dug out and reinstalled my toilet booster seat so I can rise up from the throne without moaning in pain.

The season is changing before my eyes. The trees in full color last week are bare branches this week. The red maple in one of the court yards has put on a lovely show. Half the leaves are a red skirt around the base, the rest seem to have delayed falling for another week or two.





11 comments:

  1. Hari OM
    Something turned, that's for sure, in the 'don't drink that milk' kinda way. Gird your loins is the phrase that comes to mind. Deep breaths. Meanwhile, daily life is the great leveller. Sorry to hear about the back. Hope that doesn't linger long. October was glorious here - then November came. Another turning! YAM xx

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  2. Back problems are absolutely rotten...a good job you have the booster seat. Just remember, this too shall pass.

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  3. We grieve, we carry on. We fear for the consequences elsewhere.
    We have to think positive..while preparing for anything else.
    Pirate used to have cocoa sop in the 40's when he was a child.
    I hope you can ease your back soon xx

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  4. Thanks for posting. I needed your voice.

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  5. The tree against the blue sky made my day! Sorry you sniezed youre=self into a buckling pain- Coughs will do the same thing, I have found. At this age just glancing sideways can do it. We will get through this slop somehow. We have each other and that should be enough...as long as our loved ones are not brown/black/Muslim,/ trans/ gay/ female/ poor/ elderly or ill.....Project 2025 will be slapping our loved ones silly.

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  6. Your red maple tree is beautiful. Taking pleasure in the small things and nature is more important than ever. As you state, we've all experienced hard times ... we've done it before, and we'll do it again. Fasten your seatbelt; it's going to be a bumpy ride.
    Back pain is terrible. I hope you can find some relief and recover quickly.

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  7. The Fourth Turning. Yes, I think I need to check that out. The world, the human population has been through boom and bust ages repeatedly. they say nations and empires endure a span of 200 - 250 before everything goes tits up. I guess we have reached out sell by date. if Trump et al do even half what they have said they would do we figure out how to survive.

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  8. The book you were talking about has become popular- the library waiting list is long….also for the previous one “The Fourth Turning” by same authors.
    Mum used to give us ‘Milksop’ (piece of bread in warm milk + sugar on top) Saturday afternoons during the winter. Thanks for reminding me of how we all loved it, from me, the oldest right down to our baby brother.

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  9. I know how devastated I feel here in another country, so I can only imagine what Kamala supporters are feeling there. So much at stake. Take care, Joanne. It all begins with self care!

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  10. I appreciate your inspirational post, Joanne. I'm feeling so discouraged and frightened. Not so much for me, but for my daughters and grandsons.

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  11. Like Marie Smith I hurt for you and with you. This too will pass - and I hope your back improves quickly. Thank you for posting.

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