Wednesday, June 17, 2026

More update

I gave up the car about a year ago. It needed new brakes and "front end work". I drove it longer than was safe, but when it scared me I passed it on to Dale, my honorary son-in-law. He still riggles under cars to change oil and install new brakes. 

For a while I hired rides to my infrequent doctor appointments. Then I seriously fell. Not the first time, but the first one I could not bail out of. Flat on my back with a seriously broken hip. Painful ride to the hospital where they decided my blood chemistry was to wacky to risk surgery. Bla, bla, bla.

Eventually a handsome young orthopedic surgeon proudly described his repair. A rod down my femur and another across my hip to repair the damage. An extra week in the hospital to tranfuse blood and iron and stuff, off the rehab, finally home. 

It turned out I still had a lot of bones left to break. I'll spare you the details. I already wrote they consumed half a year or more of my life and Beth's, who squoze me in with work and her return to school to earn her CPA. 

Beth is still lugging me to various doctor appointments, with no complaint to me, though I know the cost to her. However, she is focused and determined and will not let me slide. On the one hand, she makes me crazy. But arguing simply ends in fights, and the couple of those we've had are worse to me than breaking bones. Now I just give in, lips zipped.

We have one last problem to solve. I finally gave in to a full spinal study, which Beth has advocated for some time. It involved MRI's, which I have declined for years. My last MRI was over ten years ago, and I emerged close to unconscious.

Well, those have changed since then! Or I have. I do have hearing aids now, and taking them out quiets my world considerably. Add ear plugs and music and it simply was an uncomfortable hour or so on a hard table with underlying construction noise in the background.

In a subsequent visit to a spine specialist I mentioned the surgery twenty years ago and the neurologist showing me the x-ray with the nerves of my neck squeezed to the size of Scarlet O'Hara's waist, comparatetivly. "Oh, yes. That's why you're falling again!" said the spine specialist. Two new disc collapses. So, a visit to a neurologist is in my near future.

I didn't open this blog to whine, by the way, but have done plenty of that. I really wanted to show you what's become of Mr. Yesberger's trees. I linked the story of the day Emily and I went to photograph those trees I found so fascinating. There's a lovely set of photos of "my tree" by the pond (my header photo!) in all four seasons here.

My sister had opportunity to drive down Truxell Road recently and told me my tree and the pond are in rough shape these days. I asked for pictures and the other day I got them.


Yes, that's my tree. The pond, foreground, is choked with rushes and covered with scum. The Conservancy, to whom Mr. Yesberger's acreage now belongs, is returning the golf course to meadow by neglect. 

That's my sad update for today.


22 comments:

  1. You and your tree have had a tough go of things, that's for sure, but I wish you both all the best!

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  2. You certainly have every reason to whine and yet also be thankful for the wonderful and caring people in your life. Sending hugs!

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  3. Hari OM
    Ah, Joanne, that fills in quite a few of the gaps... you were sorely missed here in Blogville! I am yet again in awe of your spunk, to get through all that, and grateful that you are getting the care and attention you need and deserve.

    So sad to see the tree and pond dropped away like that... bit of a metaphor for the state of the world, I suppose... YAM xx

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  4. You are not whining at all, Joanne. Quite the contrary, in fact. You exhibit a stoicism that few of us could muster. I am just happy that you can muster the energy to stay in touch with us. Have a great weekend - David

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  5. You have every right to complain, so let 'er rip! We love you and are so glad to have you back posting updates that even the complaints are welcome. :) It's really, truly good to see you posting again, Joanne.

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  6. I was thinking about you yesterday, thought I'd email and check up on you and here you are.

    Letting us know what you've gone through the last year is not complaining. We care. So much trauma in your life. any lesser being would have just given up the ghost.

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  7. You surely have had a rough time of it. I hope the doctors can solve some of your health problems and give you some relief. Thank goodness for Beth who is hanging in there to help you. Thanks for posting. Hope things get better for you.

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  8. You are not whining or complaining. You are simply relating facts and events which are and have been difficult. Your perseverance and inner strength are amazing.
    So very sad about your trees. But they are still there, strong and growing.
    You are loved, Joanne. We are so glad to have you back.

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  9. I was beginning to think you had left us as you hadn't posted for a while. Our old bodies let us down sometimes. I hope you get back to normal health soon. Excellent description of what's going on.

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  10. You're telling it as it is...and we are all glad to "hear" what you have to say!!
    Sad to see tree and pond neglected

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  11. Please continue to "whine". Many of us can relate. And we certainly care.

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  12. The tree does look very sad, but returning a golf course to meadow might be good for wildlife, bees etc. I am glad you finally agreed to an MRI, it's a good way for doctors to see what's going on in there and now there is an action plan. And it certainly doesn't sound like whining to me.

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  13. So glad to hear from you. We really do want to know what's going on with you, and hopefully things are beginning to look up a bit.

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  14. Sorry to hear about your tree. And more sorry to hear about all your bone trials. You have certainly had enough issues! Please feel free to whine about the unfairness of all this and I will bring the virtual cheese and crackers. I do hope things get better for you.

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  15. Getting us up to date isn't whining! But I wish you had it easier, so many trials. You and your tree are hanging in there, tough guys.

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  16. Yay for Beth!
    Yay for you, for being sensible and stoic!

    I live near a bird sanctuary that looks like that former golf course – – a tangle of dead trees and marshy plants – – good habitat for birds and bugs.

    However they do of course do a lot of maintenance – – mostly volunteers pulling buckthorn that threatens to smother all other plants.
    So it’s a cultivated wildernesses 😄

    Best wishes that the balance of your warp and weft may be restored
    (If that’s even a coherent metaphor)
    Xo

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  17. Beth is a keeper. :)
    Your tree does look neglected and that is a shame.
    -glad to read that you're still chugging along, Joanne! xx

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  19. Good to see you back, hope everything mends itself painlessly.

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  20. It has been a tough year for you, Joanne, but from the looks of it, you are faring better than your tree.

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  21. Just discovered that you had put up another post. Sorry to hear about all your medical problems, I hope you can make some progress in alleviating them. Sensible to give up the car when you started to feel unsafe. Old age is a story of non-stop physical problems, isn't it?

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