I’ve fielded a couple of cemetery calls at the township
recently. One was a call to the wrong
cemetery, so I redirected it, and the other call was to ask permission to tour
our cemetery. I’m only the person who
answers the phone, so I directed that call to a cemetery trustee, but, be still
my heart. They asked permission. Unlike young hooligans who think a township
cemetery is a fine place to push over old headstones and burn frogs alive. I tell myself the universe answers that kind
of disrespect with swift and sure vengeance we just don’t know about. Their cup won’t be on the bus, times infinity.
A publically dedicated cemetery is an important piece of
becoming a community. In the beginning
there were family plots on farms, but as populations grew and fledgling
governments formed and land changed hands, there might be no one left to
maintain family plots, or even know who rested there. Communities
came together, formed governments under the laws of their state or territory,
made arrangements to take care of the poor, the schooling of children, the
burial places of their dead, the grazing lands of their cows and sheep. The
symbols of these achievements, the old cemeteries with barely legible markers,
the old school houses, the town square or village green I see as markers to the
future. Respect for the past and present are paving
stones for the future.
When I visit Ann in Wisconsin, I have a view of two old
symbols. A township cemetery and a one
room schoolhouse, directly across. The
cemetery is always neatly mowed and trimmed, just like the cemeteries cared for
in my township. I talked to the mowers
one day and learned that cemetery had ceased being used when a larger one was
built in a nearby city. The township continues to mow it, but is not
responsible for further care. Witness to
this is the long row of headstones separated from their foundation, but stacked
in a neat line against the trees. It’s
not important the stones and the bases are separated; it’s important the
markers are still displayed and trimmed about.
The fellow told me they’re pretty sure each fall which markers will fall
to the next winter or the next storm.
On the other side of the drive is an old, brick one room
school house. Ann is close to her goal
of beginning restoration of the school house this summer and turning it into a
one room home. I suppose there will be a
bathroom with a door. It’s probably
eight or nine hundred square feet and has potential oozing from every brick. I suggested a bedroom loft at the back, which
would give over the entire first floor to living. I think it will make a great little home for
a young couple starting out.
I would love to live in a one room school house, I went to one for 7 out of 8 grades.
ReplyDeleteFascinating - I love old cemeteries. It's good to know it is still given the respect and care it merits.
ReplyDeleteMy husby and I have explored cemeteries the world over. We love them. What stories they tell! And I love that old school house! What an opportunity! Here, in Alberta, if anything starts to creep towards the fifty-year-old mark, it is torn down to make way for the 'new and spectacular'. I've long passed that mark. My days are numbered . . .
ReplyDeleteThat one-room schoolhouse should be preserved as a museum. There won't be any left pretty soon.
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